“Đôi Đũa” is what Vietnamese call chopsticks, and learning to use chopstick is not an easy lesion for every foreign travellers when coming to Vietnam, China, Japan or many other Asian countries. Hopefully some below tips could make your chopstick experience much easier.
– Hold the chopsticks:
+ The upper chopstick: Similar to how you hold your pen. Hold it with the index finger, the middle finger and the thumb. The lower chopstick: is kept between the bottom of the thumbs and the tip of the ring finger.
+ Holding at 2/3 the way up of the chopsticks
– Make it open and close: The broad ends of the chopsticks should make the top shape. Then move your index finger and the middle finger up and down to open the chopsticks. Practice this moving for few times before trying with food.
– During meal:
+ Decide which food in the dish you want before putting your chopsticks in it. It is considered very distasteful to shift the food on the serving plate in search of a choice item, and even more so to return it to the plate as unacceptable.
+ Pick up food from a communal dish and place it in your bowl then enjoying it. Move food directly from the dish to your mouth is considered as less polite.
+ The morsels should be pick up quickly as much dexterity as you can manage (not easy if it is a greasy item that is sliding around)
+ If you drop your chopsticks on the ground, take a new pair
– Taboos:
+ While the Chinese avoid the X shape, sticking chopsticks vertically into a bowl of rice is a symbol of bad thing in Vietnam.
+ Playing with the chopsticks during meals is also considered impolite
+ Transfer food from one’s chopsticks to another’s chopsticks
+ Point your chopsticks at other people during meal.
Practice for few times and I believe you will master it soon. However, if all else fails, do not hesitate to ask for a fork and spoon.
Other than using in meal, Vietnamese bamboo chopsticks have been a famous souvenir with many beautiful decoration, color. A couple of chopsticks would be an ideal souvenir to bring back home. It can be found easily in every souvenir shop. (You can refer our post of shopping in Hanoi: )